“They look incredible together!” “The perfect couple!” “But they always looked so happy together?” A marriage is a complex and intimate balancing act of public perception while addressing private discord. On the surface, no one wants to air their dirty laundry for the world to judge and critique. So we put on a happy face and portray ourselves as we believe a “happy couple” is supposed to look like. As a divorce attorney, I think Dewan Tatum’s Instagram statement maturely shows how it is possible that the “perfect couple” can go through this separation. Remember, if THEY can rise above this, so can you.

“We fell deeply in love so many years ago and have had a magical journey together. Absolutely nothing has changed about how much we love each other, but love is a beautiful adventure that is taking us on different paths for now. There are no secrets nor salacious events at the root of our decision—just two best friends realizing it’s time to take some space and help each other live the most joyous, fulfilled lives as possible. We are still a family and will always be loving,
dedicated parents to Everly. We won’t be commenting beyond this, and we thank you in advance for respecting our family’s privacy.” – Dewan Tatum

As the article goes on to state, the two parties “still love each other, just in a platonic best friend way now.” If you are contemplating a divorce or separation from your spouse, realize that you are not a bad person. No one is immune to falling out of love with his or her spouse or significant other. Love is fluid and takes many forms. Allow yourself to explore your true feelings; don’t be afraid to confront them.

As you weigh your options, it is a wise decision to be properly advised as to not only the emotional consequences but also the financial and familial consequences as well. We welcome you to contact Beckerman & Granados for a free telephone consultation to get a better understanding of what to expect. We are here to help. You don’t have to go through this alone. Let our law firm handle the legal side so you can focus on your own emotional wellbeing and make that leap to the next form of love your relationship needs.

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